Be the Anchor: Leadership When the Storm Hits

Nothing ever goes exactly as planned. Change is inevitable sometimes for better, sometimes for worse. The real test isn’t if disruption comes, but how you respond when it does.

Will you freeze? Will you panic? Or will you adapt with decisive action?

Chaos reveals the truth about leaders. When things fall apart, people instinctively look to the one who remains steady. In combat, in construction, in coaching, or in any arena where stakes are high, the leader’s presence becomes the anchor that holds everything together.

Your words matter, but your steadiness matters more. When the storm hits, effective leaders follow a pattern that brings clarity to chaos. At M | J Peak Performance Coaching, we utilize the RESET framework, a process to move from reaction to control.

Recognize the Storm

Don’t deny reality. Acknowledge when things are chaotic but resist the urge to catastrophize. Clear-eyed recognition grounds your team in truth without amplifying fear. Your team already knows something is wrong. Pretending otherwise destroys credibility. Name the reality, then immediately shift toward what comes next.

Envision a Steady Course

Paint a picture of where you’re headed. Even amid uncertainty, people need direction. Give them a destination to move toward, even if the path isn’t clear. Vision doesn’t require perfect information—it requires the courage to point toward an outcome when the way forward is foggy. Your team will follow a leader who can see through uncertainty, even when details are still emerging.

Shift to Controllables

You can’t control the storm, but you can control how you respond. Focus relentlessly on actions within your span of control. This shift transforms paralysis into momentum. When everything feels chaotic, identifying what you can influence gives your team solid footholds. Direct their energy toward what they can change, and watch anxiety convert into purposeful action.

Embody Calm Confidence

Your body language, tone, and presence signal to the team whether to panic or press forward. Embody calm confidence not because you have all the answers, but because your steadiness gives others permission to think clearly. People mirror the emotional temperature you set. Slow your breathing, lower your voice, and move with deliberate purpose. Your composure becomes contagious and creates psychological space for sound decisions.

Take Immediate Action

Decisiveness breaks the spell of chaos. Even imperfect action creates momentum and demonstrates that the situation is manageable. Move with purpose, adjust as needed, and keep your team engaged in forward motion. The first decision doesn’t have to be perfect—it just must break inertia. Action creates information, and information creates better action. Start moving, and course correct as you go.

The “No Plan, Plan”

There are countless stories from my time in the Army when things didn’t go as planned. Sometimes they went horribly wrong. Other times, no one could’ve predicted what was about to happen. You must be ready for what I call “The No Plan, Plan.”

The plan doesn’t get time or resources to develop—you only have what’s at your immediate disposal, and you must make something happen.

One night, a runner burst into my tent with news that a team had been hit by an improvised explosive device (IED) about an hour from our location. They needed medical support, vehicle recovery, and additional security. I had just settled in for what I thought would be a quiet night off. Within seconds, the calm turned into organized chaos.

My Commander and I could’ve started shouting orders and fueling panic but instead, we stayed calm and deliberate. I rallied the platoon that would execute the mission while he began planning with our executive officer, operations sergeant, and platoon leader.

The platoon sergeant and I assembled the team and gave clear, simple instructions: load the trucks, line up, and prepare to move. Within minutes, we reconvened at the command tent to finalize the plan.

We had trucks loaded, personnel ready, and a mission brief delivered in record time—considering this wasn’t our assigned mission. That night, the platoon recovered the damaged vehicle, and no additional casualties were taken.

It wasn’t perfect. We lost a fine young man that night. But I also watched my leaders shine under pressure. They didn’t freeze. They didn’t panic. They became the anchors that held the team steady.

Lead Steady. Lead Strong. Be the Anchor.

The storm will always test your leadership. Recognize it. Envision the way forward. Shift to what you can control. Embody calm. Take action.

That’s how you become the anchor your team needs.

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